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Never Play with A Soul

6/25/2025

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Mikayla Raines of SaveAFox has taken her life. I became in love with her personality, her videos, Finnegan Fox’s “He he he”, a certain coyote, who found a special place in my heart, and the stories around building, maintaining and funding SaveAFox quite a while ago. 
 
Who was she? A child gifted to this world. A mother. A wife. A soul facing her own challenges while walking her path with an open heart. A rescuer, gentle to animals, giving her all. Someone who had built up a rescue working together with others.

​Her husband Ethan states that some of the bullying, she had had to endure, came from other rescuers, people who are saving animals but choose to bully and thus consciously hurt another human being. It is a strange world, we live in.
 
Bullying someone else, belittling them, putting them down behind their back, causing them physical, emotional or psychological pain, abusing spirituality, religion or the illusion of being anonymous on social media by creating an avatar or fake persona, mocking their struggles, knowingly re-traumatizing and abandoning them, when they cannot bear it anymore and ask for help and then smearing and isolating them, is neither “just a joke”, “just a mistake” or “a prank”. It is playing with the soul of another being.

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"White Fox Stargazing", white pastels, Kristin Raphaela Otti (2025, Hotel Hecher, Wolfsberg, Carinthia)
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"The Trickster", fineliners, Kristin Raphaela Otti (2005)
People who bully the kind, empathic and loving mistake kindness for weakness. Kind people who do not hit back and who do not retaliate, have gone through pain, they would never wish onto someone else. Kind people are strong as hell, but make no mistake, they have feelings and the abuse takes its toll.
 
Why does the bully choose them? Fear and jealousy, not strength. The bully is unwilling to face themselves or the one who inflicted their own wounding on them originally, another bully or abuser. An abuser confronted gets loud, aggressive, shifts blame or alternatively throws a tantrum like a toddler, deflecting, projecting and provoking, a kind person and empath does not hit back, unless provoked and drained enough by being used as a doormat and emotional garbage can. Then reactive abuse or self-abuse takes place. 
 
Never play with another soul. 
 
Thank you, Mikayla, for your work, saving foxes, minks and coyotes, and for simply being your authentic self.

Kristin Raphaela Otti 

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World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day June 1st

6/1/2025

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Today is June 1st, World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day. 
 
Narcissistic abuse leaves no visible scars and hard to believe unless the victim confides in someone who has experienced it themselves or a professional therapist who has knowledge beyond reading theories and textbooks about it.  In public the narcissist wears masks befitting the occasion, in private the masks fall and Dr. Jekyll turns into Mr. Hyde. 

​How often have you read or heard the following “I have met him. He was so nice to me! So polite. How could he have hit her?” or “She took care of him, never left his side and her words were always so full of concern for his mental wellbeing. It was just about his possessions?”

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Silence is the killer. Dare to speak. Dare to break the silence.

​Narcissistic abuse is the intentional and malicious exploitation, abuse and manipulation of the heart, soul, mind and spirit of another human being. It takes the form of coercion, emotional, spiritual, religious, financial or physical abuse.

​Narcissists are master manipulators using gaslighting, triangulation and flying monkeys who are part of a reward and punishment system doing their work for them. While the flying monkeys get their hands dirty, the puppeteer in the background keeps their hands clean, so that when they are caught others pay the price for their deeds. 

​Victims of narcissistic abuse are depleted of their energy and finances, isolated from friends and family who will not tolerate the abuse they are witnessing quietly, confused by manipulation tactics and tricked into reacting to the abuse that has taken place behind closed doors in public.
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​This is called reactive abuse. It makes the victim look like the narcissist or the toxic partner and the narcissist or toxic partner like the victim. The script is flipped. 
 
Victims of narcissistic abuse are trapped in cycles of abuse and sudden loving behavior creating trauma bonding. 
 
The silencing of the victim and the silence of those witnessing the abuse keeps the narcissist in power. 
 
Dare to speak and break the silence. 

If you are into reading and storytelling, I recommend reading Stephen King’s “Misery” and “Needful Things”.

​Leland Gaunt in “Needful Things” is a master puppeteer letting his flying monkeys do his bidding while not getting his hands dirty.

If you have seen Kathy Bates starring in the movie adaptation of “Misery”, you know what it means to witness your perfect soulmate turn into your worst nightmare behind closed doors. 

Kristin Raphaela Otti ​
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Animal Wisdom Speaks June - Butterfly

6/1/2025

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June has arrived and this month Animal Wisdom Speaks is dedicated to the Butterfly, the trusted friend of the Keeper of Secrets, the Raven.
The Butterfly does not speak with its mouth, for it its one with all of creation and sees no need in manifesting any riches for itself. It sings its beautiful song from the heart instead, greeting all of creation with unconditional love, sharing its wealth.
The Butterfly carries its healing wisdom to all the flowers and herbs alike, even the ones that are hardest to reach, the ones not visited by bees. 

​It is a teacher and companion who flies on silent wings, never disturbing the peace or sowing discord choosing to always be in the moment instead. 
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"Shadow Butterfly", black pastels, Kristin Raphaela Otti (2024, Carinthia)
It has shed its past and left it behind, showing its true colours and healing wisdom openly now embracing transformation and change.

​To learn more about the Butterfly and its wisdom go to ​
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    ​I am a shaman and storyteller from Carinthia, Austria, tending the fires of winter in the hearts and walking with those, who wish to embark on a journey deep within.

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